Author: Dan Giordano

  • 32: Lessons from and Unmentored Life with Emmanuel Wolfe

    32: Lessons from and Unmentored Life with Emmanuel Wolfe

    32: Lessons from and Unmentored Life with Emmanuel Wolfe

    Daniel Giordano

    About Manny Wolfe

    Manny Wolfe had a rather unconventional start to life. His story starts out with being born into a cult in the late 60’s in the San Francisco Bay area, where he was programmed from birth not to fit into outside society. At 8 ½ years old, the cult moved from right into the middle of one of the top 10 most violent ghettos at the time, Stockton, CA. Overnight, he experienced violence and spent the next 4 years in a constant state of flight-or-fight mode and the children in the cult received no protection or guidance from the adults. Between the countercultural mindset instilled in him, 4 years of violence, and an environment where drug use was encouraged, by the time he was 12 and they moved away, he was set on a path of drug abuse, addiction, criminal behavior, jails and violence.

    It took years for him to even realize that his youth was not normal and, finally, he had a moment of clarity at 28 years old that sent him running. He disappeared from the life and the crowd that he was in, never to be heard from again. That decision marked the exact moment when his trajectory started to change. From that time forward, he began to pursue self-exploration, personal development, and studied what internal mechanisms had led him to that point.

    He looked to thought leaders and as he started absorbing their teachings and undoing his own damage bit by bit, the person that emerged was someone who was tender, vulnerable and wanted to be of service to others. It would be many years still until he put their thoughts and his calling together. During the intervening years he did everything from construction to being a playwright, until one day his fiancé told him he should write a book about his experiences.

    After the book was done, the question became, “how do I get a platform to sell it?” A podcast was the obvious answer. From there, the possibilities just opened up a whole new life for Manny and today, he is a Public Speaking and Charisma Coach. If you need to deliver from the stage in a way that is dazzling, Manny will show you how to get there by using your body language and speech as your secret weapons.

    Most Influential Mentor:

    • Thought leaders and motivators including Tony Robbins and Michael Gerber were huge influences on him and showed him how he could be of service to others in a way that used his gifts of being attuned to others and great communication skills.

    Biggest Challenges and Lessons:

    • Manny’s entire youth and young adulthood were a series of challenges. His darkest moment came at 28, when he had seriously contemplated killing another man. Fortunately, it dawned on him at that moment that he couldn’t follow through and that decision ultimately led him on a journey to not only saving his life but becoming a success.
    • During the recession, he lost everything-his home, his car and his utilities-when construction bottomed out. That led him to go to his family for support, something most people would do.
    • Although the reaction and lack of support he received from them was pretty awful, in the long run it was the best thing that could have happened. For years, he had never made the connection that they were actually the barrier to his success and it took this one meeting for him to see in one glorious, painful, cathartic moment that all his need for their approval was severed.
    • From that point forward, he knew that he should not, could not and didn’t need to rely on them, and after his breakaway from their limiting beliefs and betrayal, abundance showed itself again in his life. 

    Discovery:

    • From launching his podcast to today, he made so many wonderful friends and his eyes were opened to many wonderful opportunities.
    • He’d had no idea of what existed online and when he discovered it, it was like someone gave him the key to the secret door to the reach and impact we can have.
    • He had an incredible ‘A-ha!’ moment that the things he loved to do in the realm of helping others could also support him. Through the power of the internet, he’s now coached people on 7 continents!

    The Importance of Communication

    • As humans, we connect to others with voice in a way that is more profound than any other form of communication. Our voices identify us.
    • If we can put different cadence, tone and rhythm into our speaking voices, it broadens the spectrum of emotional access that people have to us.
    • Being able to put emotional cues into our speaking makes people’s perception of you change-you are perceived as more charismatic, more open, and more trustworthy. You will never hear a great orator who doesn’t have great flexibility in rhythm, tone and cadence. 

    Advice on Being ‘All-In’:

    • If you want to make a true ‘go’ of your entrepreneurial dream, you have to stop serving two masters. That only feeds into the scarcity mindset.
    • There is nothing that compares to being able to labor diligently in a way that connects to your mission.

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  • 31: From Horse and Buggy to Benz with Amos Borntreger

    31: From Horse and Buggy to Benz with Amos Borntreger

    31: From Horse and Buggy to Benz with Amos Borntreger

    Daniel Giordano

    About Amos Borntreger

    Amos grew up Amish, one of the most conservative communities in existence. He knew nothing but farming and hard work but, in his heart, he knew that was not the life for him. That drive for something bigger, coupled with dyslexia, a learning disability that the Amish community refused to understand or recognize, led him to make a commitment at the age of 10 to prove that he could do something greater.

    By the age of 21, he was running his own sawmill business, but it was only doing ‘okay’, and he was living paycheck to paycheck. A good friend of his told him, “you can be everything you want to be and have as much as you want”. That thought was always in the back of his mind, but it wasn’t until he was 37 and facing a serious illness that he made the decision that ‘enough is enough’. At that time, he had a wife and 7 children. He realized that if he died, his family would have nothing to survive on. It was at that moment, when he made that decision, that things started to fall into place.

    He took immediate action but realized that he needed to start learning. He’d always felt ‘blindfolded’ when it came to learning because of the experiences of his youth, but he didn’t let that stop him. He listened to other people who had done well, like Brian Tracy and Napoleon Hill, and knew if they could do it, he should be able to as well.

    Initially, he looked for an opportunity that would provide residual income for his family in the event of his death. But, he ended up with an opportunity that did not only that but improved his health as well. Today, he is not only financially successful, but he’s here and healthy and enjoying

    Most Influential Mentor:

    • He’s learned so much from so many, but Jim Rohn has probably been his greatest teacher.
    • Jim’s teaching and training on communication gave Amos the hope that he could step out from where he was into abundance.

    Biggest Challenges and Lessons:

    • Growing up with dyslexia in the Amish community meant that he was mocked daily, and many people just treated him as if he was stupid and not worth their time to deal with.
    • He also grew up being taught that you cannot and should not have financial abundance.
    • Looking back, it was facing these challenges that helped him develop into the person that he is today and gave him his passion for helping people change their lives.
    • Coming from a place of despair and hopelessness into wealth and wellness made him realize that no matter who we are or where we come from, we can all step out and do our greatest.
    • Later in life, having financial success meant stepping away from the Amish community; that was very tough because it was everything he’d grown up with and it meant a separation from both his parents and his wife’s, a very big sacrifice.
    • However, he wouldn’t trade anything about who he’s become today vs. the person he used to be. He’s living in alignment with his purpose, which has far greater meaning.

    Daily Routine for Success:

    • Amos starts every day with a call to his team. Every single call starts with a prayer meditation and then moves into some element of personal development and communication skills before discussing specific business matters.
    • Each day, he sets aside personal time for personal development and motivation. The more he learns, the more he wants to learn. It’s a wonderful never-ending quest for improvement and he has to be learning daily.

    His Bigger Vision:

    • Today, Amos and his team are in 12 countries. His goal is to be impacting people in 60+ countries.
    • He will not settle for less and he believes he can meet this goal without a doubt.
    • As a person who once felt he was a hopeless case and is now living a life of abundance, his passion is so strong that he will never give up.

    Advice on Being ‘All-In’:

    • Personal development and communication skills are not just for business. Learning and applying the principles will help you in every aspect of your life so that you can jump into any situation and be successful.
    • Taking massive, immediate action is what separates the successful from everyone else. In every single case, taking action is the beginning of success.
    • The journey from where you are to where you want to be can be a struggle. It needs to be because that develops you into who you are.

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  • 30: The Story of You with Mark Minard

    30: The Story of You with Mark Minard

    30: The Story of You with Mark Minard

    Daniel Giordano

    About Mark Minard​

    At age 17, Mark had hit rock bottom, when he woke up in a jail cell with no memory of why and how he had gotten there. He had been going down a path of drinking and drugs and ended up being arrested for DUI. Not only had he been beaten up pretty badly by the driver he rear-ended, but was so intoxicated that he should have been dead. It was his wake-up call to leave that life behind. He moved back in with his parents and started getting his life back on track. Even through the bad times, he had never lost his relationship with God, and this time, God was speaking to him, saying, “What are you going to do with the second chance at life I have given you?” From that point forward, he improved his physical being and pursued his college degree. He never felt that he was very ‘book smart’, but he was determined to outwork everyone else. He had a bigger mission to live a better life.

    After receiving his Bachelor’s in Psychology, he moved to Ohio to work with his brother. Through a family friend, he had an opportunity to work with special needs adults in the Ohio ‘County Workshops’. He really enjoyed what he was doing but found the environment to be depressing and institutionalized. The adults in the program had 2 choices to fill their time all day-either color or work putting together machine parts. He took another opportunity teaching a new special education program for High School students with special needs, which eventually brought him back to the County Workshops when he would tour them with his students heading for graduation.

    He realized just how fortunate most of us are that we do have options and these students had very, very few. He thought, ‘there has to be another way’, and God started showing him that he was that person that needed to bring the change. At only 26 years old, he started learning the Medicaid and Ohio rules for funding of these types of facilities. His used his brother’s campground as his campus and founded DreamShine with his sister.

    Today, 9 years later, they have their own 2 ½ acre facility where residents can engage in a wealth of enriching activities and earn a paycheck that is higher than minimum wage. He’s expanded into leadership service, public speaking, hosting a podcast and has just written his first book, ‘The Story of You’.

    Most Influential Mentor:

    • As he’s stepped out of his comfort zone and grown in different areas, God has continually connected Mark with the right people during the right seasons of his life. He knows that the people he meets are never a coincidence.
    • Among some of those people are another special needs facility program coordinator he met at the outset of his venture, Dave Ramsey, Dan Miller and Eric Thomas.
    • And, sometimes, even a critic can be a mentor. By being negative, they will inadvertently help you by lighting that inner fire that makes you want to push.

    Biggest Challenges and Lessons:

    • After getting the certifications to start DreamShine, before he even had his first enrollee, he received a call from someone close to the Governor.
    • She told him that he ‘shouldn’t do this’, and when he asked why, the response was, “We’ve been doing it this way for 40 years, that’s the way it’s done, and you’re going to have too hard a time”. She posed it as if she was doing him a ‘favor’.
    • Instead of being intimidated, it pushed him even more, because he felt that he really had something special to offer if people were trying to stop him before he even started.

    On Competition:

    • Since starting DreamShine, there are more places in Ohio offering similar programs but Mark doesn’t look at it as competition.
    • He’s happy that the people they serve will have more choice and that each time a new program opens, it raises the bar even more of what is possible.
    • Mark realizes that there will always be more people in need of the service than he will have space for. He also knows that not every single program is right for every single individual.
    • Mark and the other program directors cross-refer to each other to meet the needs of the participants. He believes that’s how it really should be if you truly care about the services you are offering and the people you are serving.

    The Story of You’:

    • As they continue to do more with DreamShine, Mark has become more involved in leadership. When he first started, he’d not had experience in that area and he had a lot to learn.
    • Over time, he realized that he really enjoyed unifying teams and creating good cultures. And, the more he spoke about it, the more he saw that there was really a need for better leadership across the board.
    • Taking what he learned from others, what he learned in his own experience running DreamShine, and combining it with his personal story, is the inspiration behind the book.
    • For the reader, he wanted it to be about them creating their own stories and understanding that you can overcome adversity and ‘limitations’. 

    Balancing Work and Family:

    • Taking a cue from a close friend, Mark believes “instead of balance, you ‘embrace the tension”. You will always have tension in each area of your life and you should-if it’s perfectly balanced, it’s flat-lining.
    • When times get really busy, he calls those his ‘seasons of sacrifice’. Those are the times when work is demanding but he also puts an ‘end time’ to those periods. He’s able to meet his work demands by staying in really good communication with his wife and fulfilling expectations for both of them.
    • He also has a network of accountability partners through his Mastermind group.

    His Bigger Vision:

    • In addition to his podcast and book, he’s going to be doing several live events, speaking on different levels of leadership, sharing the message of his story and of following your dreams.
    • As a child, he was labeled ADHD. Today, he considers that a gift from God, because that ability to multi-task is what allows him to focus on the many paths of writing, speaking, and leading, to reach as many people as possible.

    Advice on Being ‘All-In’:

    • It’s okay to not have a perfect plan or to not even know exactly what you’re going to do. Just start doing and learning along the way. Looking back he can see how the mistakes turned into wisdom.
    • Start following your calling. Start taking action-one day and one step at a time.
    • There is never going to be a perfect balance in every aspect of your life. It’s about knowing that you have to be intentional about the time spent in each area.

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  • 29: A life lesson – How to have incredible vision with Jim Stovall

    29: A life lesson – How to have incredible vision with Jim Stovall

    29: A life lesson – How to have incredible vision with Jim Stovall

    Daniel Giordano

    About Jim Stovall

    Jim grew up in Tulsa, OK. All through his teenage years, his one dream and passion was to become a star football player and play in the NFL. He didn’t have a safety net or a Plan B and he pursued football to the exclusion of almost everything else.

    During a routine sports exam for his high school football team, he was diagnosed with a condition that would cause him to lose his sight early in life. Everything came to a halt. He realized that not only would he be eventually blind, but he wouldn’t be going to the NFL either to live his life as a football pro.

    He had to come up with another option. He switched his life path and became a weightlifter. He was able to end his athletic career having experienced championship and a Gold medal in the weightlifting arena. Shortly thereafter, in his late 20’s, he did lose the remainder of his sight. For a while, he was depressed and scared. It was a neighbor who turned him onto to his first motivational speaker, and he began to devour those messages. So much so that he’s now on his 3rd copy of that same program, ‘The Psychology of Winning’.

    Over time, he got back into life, got his act together, and started a company that makes movies and television accessible to the visually impaired. Out of that, he became a speaker and then an author. Today, he has written over 30 books, 6 of them having been made into movies, has a weekly syndicated newspaper column and speaks to millions of people in arenas all over the world.

    Most Influential Mentor:

    • There are many but if he had to name one, it would be Napoleon Hill, author of ‘Think and Grow Rich’.
    • As he meets successful people around the world at the top of their game, when he asks them what book they would recommend, more of them cite this book than any other title.

    Biggest Challenges and Lessons:

    • When he lost his vision, he did believe his life had ended. It wasn’t only the end of his sight and embarking on a life of physical disability; it was also the end of his dream of living his life as a professional athlete.
    • He was depressed and despondent and broke and scared. On reflection, he believes this is an important phase for everyone to go through-it’s like the grieving process upon death. You need to experience that pain but limit it so that you can use it to rebound, reflect and refocus.
    • His process started with a little old lady in his neighborhood who brought him the tape series, “The Psychology of Winning” by Dr. Denis Waitley.
    • In it is the epic poem, “If you think you can, you can”. It is an amazing piece of writing.
    • At the same time, people around him told him he’d never be able to go anywhere or do anything, while the tapes said otherwise. He said to himself “someone is lying to me” and he chose to believe the Dr.’s message.

    On Becoming a Bestselling Author:

    • He had never intentionally thought about being an author. The encouragement of his colleagues Dr. Waitley and Dr. Schuler is what prompted his first book, an autobiography, “You Don’t Have to Be Blind to See”,
    • He thought that would be the end since he’d told his whole story but the publisher wanted another and then another.
    • After a few more non-fiction titles, he decided to just ‘make up a story’ when the publisher wanted another book. That first novel, ‘The Ultimate Gift’, became a worldwide phenomenon and runaway success.
    • The chances of a manuscript becoming a book and then a movie are about 1 in a million so he is still rather surprised when it happens. To see a character that was a figment of your imagination come alive on screen is an amazing experience.
    • He believes the key to writing a good story is creating great characters and then letting them go.
    • We have a tendency to compare our first drafts to the completed books of others but we never see their first drafts either, so we think our writing is bad. The key to being a good writer is to be a bad writer and just keep writing through.

    What’s On The Horizon:

    • Earlier this year, he released ‘The Millionaire Map’, his story of rising from abject poverty to becoming a multimillionaire.
    • He also started a new series, ‘The Homecoming Historicals’, that all have high school athlete characters. The first in this series is ‘One Season of Hope’. It’s already been optioned for a movie.
    • He just recently released ‘Ultimate Hindsight’, based on interviews with well-known public figures on what they wish they had known before and their advice for others.
    • ‘Ultimate Legacy’, the final movie in the ‘Ultimate’ novel trilogy will be released January 2016.
    • He has plans for more books in 2016-he is definitely staying busy!

    What is His Legacy?

    • Our legacy is not something we should be scraping together at the end of our lives to leave behind. It’s something we build on every day with everything we do.
    • Ask yourself every day, “What would I do right now if I were amazing?” You’ll find that if you approach everything as if you are amazing, then you will have an amazing life.
    • That amazing life is your legacy. For Jim, he hopes that his legacy is nothing more and nothing less than being the guy who held up a mirror for someone else to examine their goals, dreams and ambitions to create their own legacy.

    Faith is a Relationship

    • For Jim, faith is not a part of his life-it is his life.
    • We can’t compartmentalize our life. Too many people’s faith is religion-a series of duties and rituals that you only have to pull out one day a week.
    • But, religion is only great until you come upon a great turmoil in your life. Then, you have to go from religion to relationship.
    • Religion is a theory. Relationship is a life. When you have a religion, you have constraints on your life. When you have a relationship, it becomes who you are and is part of your whole being.

    Advice on Being ‘All-In’:

    • The only thing you have to do to have a great business is to ask yourself, “How can I help other people avoid that problem?” The world will bring you great success and fortune if you help other people solve their problems. The only way we get ahead in this world is to create value for other people.
    • We have to be willing to be bad to be good. Too many people give up too fast.
    • Don’t ever take advice from someone who doesn’t have what you want.
    • This life you’re living is not a practice game. It’s every tournament and playoff rolled into one.   If you don’t feel that kind of passion for what you do every day, you need to make a diametrical change in your life.
    • The meaning of life is to find our gift and the purpose is to give it away to others.

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  • 28: Being an Entrepreneurial Couple with Cadey Charfen

    28: Being an Entrepreneurial Couple with Cadey Charfen

    28: Being an Entrepreneurial Couple with Cadey Charfen

    Daniel Giordano

    About Cadey Charfen

    Cadey is the wife and business partner of a previous show guest, Alex Charfen. Born and raised in Dallas, she was a flight attendant when she met Alex 12 years ago and didn’t even realize she was an entrepreneur until they started dating!

    Her father was the entrepreneur in the family, but, unfortunately, she didn’t get to see much of that lifestyle as her parents were divorced, and her stepfather was a ‘corporate guy’, staying with the same company for 20+ years. While she didn’t stay with Southwest Airlines after meeting Alex, her time there was a great experience for her to see what a really dynamic company looked like from the inside out and to understand what did and didn’t work.

    After meeting Alex and discovering her entrepreneurial spirt, real estate was the natural path, as that was the predominant career background of almost her entire family. In her first year of selling real estate, she earned a triple-digit income, especially remarkable when considering the average 1st year agent’s income is approximately $28,000.

    She was off to a very successful start but she and Alex, like so many others, got hit by the housing recession of 2007-2008. While it was personally devastating at the time, it allowed them to look more carefully at their own financial habits, and just as important, it led them to develop the CDP course and designation. The CDP was an answer to all of the foreclosures that no one, even in the industry, knew how to effectively deal with. They made a HUGE impact with this course, even being told by a representative in the US Treasury that their program alone probably sped up the housing recovery by 5 years!

    Today, Cadey runs the operations and oversight for CHARFEN, the company she and Alex founded together. They focus on general entrepreneurship and want people to understand that if they can run a transparent business, then they can gain the support and trust that they need to go out and make the impact that they envision. For them, it’s not about creating a big company; it’s about creating a movement.

    Most Influential Mentor:

    • Her husband, Alex. He believed in her wholeheartedly from day one.
    • His support made it safe for her to make mistakes and face her fears.

    Biggest Challenges and Lessons:

    • They had to file bankruptcy in 2008 because of the real-estate fallout. It was the hardest thing she’s ever had to do.
    • In retrospect, it was probably one of the best things that could have happened because they had been living beyond their means and it changed their relationship with money.
    • Today, they have more freedom because they live a completely debt-free lifestyle, with their office building lease being their only consumer debt.
    • During their financial struggle, it was difficult as they were both being told by family to just get any job possible, but she and Alex have an entrepreneurial spirit that just didn’t match that idea.
    • The experience of not knowing how they were going to rebound led them to create a foreclosure course that turned not just their life around, but had a significant impact industry-wide.

    Being an Entrepreneurial Couple

    • They are successful at working together because they recognize their own strengths and skills and don’t cross into each other’s areas.
    • One of their tenets is that they create momentum in the marriage outside of momentum in the business.
    • The business will always have ‘ups and downs’ so if you focus on the marriage separately, they won’t impact your relationship as much.

    Balancing Work and Family:

    • Work-life balance is nonsense. We’ve been sold a ‘bill of goods’ that tells us one always has to be in conflict with the other.
    • Instead, they believe in work-life synergy and they do their best by integrating both into their lives. Their children are home-schooled and they are creative with their time and activities.
    • Because of the corporate world, a lot of people are ingrained into an 8-5 routine, and that doesn’t have to be true.

    Common Threads:

    • In working with entrepreneurs, she sees a lot of the same thoughts and feelings over and over among her clients.
    • There is a tremendous amount of guilt and isolation that entrepreneurs have, especially when it comes to their life and the impact that they want to make. Many don’t understand how to integrate both sides and get the support that they need.
    • She and Alex want entrepreneurs to get past the idea that there’s something ‘wrong’ with them. So many have been misdiagnosed and mislabeled-if Thomas Edison lived today, he would have been medicated for OCD!
    • As a society, we are stunting creative growth by some of the structures we’ve put into place and what should be considered ‘normal’.
    • Their mission is for entrepreneurs to recognize that they can reach out and ask for support to lower the noise and pressure in their lives.

    What Inspires Her:

    • In one of the classes they teach, The Entrepreneur’s Workshop, an 8-hr. class, she has seen people walk in who have been telling themselves their negative stories and beating themselves up, and leave feeling relieved and willing to go forward.
    • Watching entrepreneurs make that transformation from fearful to confident is a tremendous gift.
    • She also believes that entrepreneurs have a ‘secret weapon’ to success in their own spouses. Many of them don’t know how to tap into that and be open to receiving that support. This is a mission of hers.
    • To that end, she and Alex will be launching a podcast in January, 2016, called “Making Love and Business Work”, that will focus on how entrepreneurs can bridge that gap so they can get that support from their spouses who want to help but maybe doesn’t know how to.

    Advice on Being ‘All-In’:

    • Get a mentor. Before you start out, find your ‘first follower’ as soon as possible. You need someone in your corner believing in you.
    • Surround yourself with a team that supports you. No great entrepreneur ever did it all alone.
    • Drop the veneer. It’s exhausting to try and ‘show up’ as someone else all of the time. We all move forward faster when we acknowledge the truths about our personal lives and our business. When we are honest, we help ourselves and we help those around us.

    Favorite Quote:

    • “‘Whether you think you can’t, or you think you can, you’re right”.

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  • 27: Transforming The World with Stuart Tan

    27: Transforming The World with Stuart Tan

    27: Transforming The World with Stuart Tan

    Daniel Giordano

    About Stuart Tan

    Stuart got to where he is today because he was really bad in school at one point! As a young kid, Stuart was failing school-in Singapore. Culturally, there is a lot of pride in doing well academically in Singapore and it was really quite the shock that, not only was he not doing well, he didn’t seem to care. He really hated studying and just wanted to ‘get by’.

    His mom got so worried about school that she enrolled him in some enrichment classes. That’s where things started to change for him and put him on the path that would become his future. Those classes gave him a new-found interest in learning and he started doing so well that one of his classmates thought he was cheating! Stuart told him he made a turn-around because of the extra classes and offered to teach him the same. That first experience of sharing what he was learning, something that someone else could also use to improve, is what set everything in motion.

    Not surprisingly, he became involved in teaching personal development. He was aligned with what he wanted to do but as an introverted kid, the thought of getting on stage to teach programs was unheard of. When he taught his first seminar, LEAP, to about 250 people, he looked up and saw 2 of his secondary school teachers were there and could not believe their ears!

    He continued to teach, but it wasn’t necessarily about the money and was more of a hobby. He truly enjoys helping people live fuller lives. But, in 2002, the opportunity did come for him to start benefitting financially from his programs. That first year, with his business partners, he made $1.35M in revenue, which would grow close to $15-17M by the time he left, less than 10 years later. They had expanded into 7 countries and, at his peak, was training 16 hours a day.

    He loves every moment of sharing with others that there IS joy in learning and this year marks his 22nd year as a professional trainer.

    Most Influential Mentor:

    • He wouldn’t discount any human that has passed through his life ever. Every single person has been a role model, whether negative or positive. Yes, even having a negative role model is beneficial because you can learn from their mistakes.
    • However, Dr. Richard Bandler, the founder of NLP, has been his biggest inspiration both professionally and personally.
    • In some of Stuart’s darker moments, he had to learn how to shift his mindset and adopt a more positive approach to life. He knows that every success he has now is a result of the way of thinking he has adopted over the years from Dr. Bandler’s influence.

    Biggest Challenges and Lessons:

    • His biggest challenges came in 2004 and 2012, both as a result of being betrayed in some fashion by those he trusted in his business.
    • The 2004 challenge taught him that he needed to change his mindset and be more forgiving. He and his partner at the time used the lessons from that experience to elevate everyone that came to their training. They were transparent and honest and it was probably some of the best he ever delivered.
    • Today, he doesn’t regret going through it because it was a coming of age and he learned how to forgive others.
    • The lessons he learned from 2004 were necessary for what came in 2012-instead of pointing fingers and blame, he took the responsibility because, although he didn’t commit the wrong, he had made the bad decision of being too trusting.
    • This was also a major turning point because it was when he made the decision that money was easy to find. Even with thousands having to be repaid, the struggle was more emotional. He won over people by being honest and never losing his cool and he financially recovered very quickly.

    Dealing with Dark Moments:

    • Whatever is happening in your life at the present moment, you can rise to the occasion. The universe is not out to ‘get us’ and put us in a bad place. Dark moments are there as an opportunity for us to elevate ourselves. There is an opportunity for learning and for change in every bad situation that comes into our lives.
    • Dark moments are anywhere and everyone will experience them-the worst thing you can do is throw your hands up and give up.
    • Anything that is given to us is a gift. If he hadn’t experienced 2004 and taken the opportunity to change his mindset, he wouldn’t have been prepared for 2012 and it would have been horrible.

    Advice on Being ‘All-In’

    • Everyone deserves a chance to be authentically themselves. Don’t try to fill someone else’s shoes. If you’re not being yourself, you’re not going to enjoy what you’re doing.
    • If you’re facing problems right now, those same problems have been faced by thousands before you. Look for the experts and the answers. It can be as easy as finding a book on Amazon. Just reading one book could literally change your life.
    • Remember and focus on the moments that you can really relish and be grateful for. They will sustain you.

    Favorite Quote:

    • “Lose your mind and come to your senses.” (Fritz Perls, ‘father’ of Gestalt Therapy)
    • “A lot of people know how to feel bad for no good reason. Our mission in life is to learn how to feel good for no good reason.” (Dr. Richard Bandler, founder of NLP)

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  • 26: Hustling until your bank account looks like a phone number with Chase Thompson

    26: Hustling until your bank account looks like a phone number with Chase Thompson

    26: Hustling until your bank account looks like a phone number with Chase Thompson

    Daniel Giordano

    About Chase Thompson

    Chase Thompson is a native Texan, born and raised in San Antonio. He is a husband and the father of 2 young children. He knows they’re incredible and his wife deserves all the credit for that! Having his children gave him an entire new level of motivation that he didn’t even know existed until they arrived in the world.

    His professional career started in insurance sales and then he moved to the real estate mortgage industry, where he’s been for almost a decade. His started his career in mortgage as a loan originator, and then moved into business development and marketing, an area where he was better able to use his background, talent and skills. He then broke out on his own and today he’s a real estate investor as well as the podcast host of ‘NoteMBA’.

    Most Influential Mentor:

    • He’s had so many, both with those who are close and those who are far. Within the note space, Robert Woods, who is also his podcast co-host is one of them. He’s one of the best people at having the tough conversations that Chase has ever met.
    • For general business, another mentor is James Altucher, also another podcast host. He has great investment mindset and business acumen.
    • Not enough people take enough advantage of those ‘mentor from afar’ opportunities, such as books, videos and even email. Don’t be afraid to reach out.

    Challenges and Setbacks

    • There are always going to be challenges in life and you can get particular about it, such as layoffs or a deal gone bad, but that’s not the big picture.
    • Putting too much weight on any one circumstance does no one any good; it’s more important to keep an even keel opinion across the board.
    • The bigger lesson is what you do next. That’s a much better metric than measuring pitfalls.

    Big Audacious Goals

    • For Chase, it’s not totally about the money or any one specific goal or deal.
    • He and his wife share a commitment to contribution. They have a certain financial goal each year and, after that, it’s all about contribution.
    • The drive to ‘out-give’ their expectations is a motivator for them. The income from his investment business is what allows them do it.

    Common Trends He Sees

    • It’s all about the Internet and the technology.
    • When you take a step back and think about what it has allowed us to do in the last 18-20 years, it’s incredible. It is literally the largest disruption we’ve had in the history of man.
    • We’re going to keep seeing more apps and start-ups over the next 24 months that will turn the traditional banking system on its head.

    Advice on Being ‘All-In’

    • Surround yourself with as many people as you can that will ‘call you out’ and motivate you. For Chase, these people are the catalyst for him to take action and keep growing and building.
    • There’s an interesting opportunity from 9 pm to 2 am that a lot of people don’t take advantage of.   Put down the remote and start learning. You can learn so much by the wealth of material that’s available today.
    • You don’t know how long you’re going to be here. There’s a ton of opportunity to go ‘all in’ on 4 to 5 things in your life. Take advantage of those opportunities.

    Favorite Quote:

    • “‘Hustle until your bank account looks like a phone number”

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  • 25: Blogging Your Passion with Jonathan Milligan

    25: Blogging Your Passion with Jonathan Milligan

    25: Blogging Your Passion with Jonathan Milligan

    Daniel Giordano

    About Jonathan Milligan

    Jonathan Milligan had no idea he’d be doing what he’s doing today. He tells his son to keep his eyes open because this generation will create the jobs and opportunities that didn’t even exist as options when Jonathan was in school.

    Both of Jonathan’s parents were teachers, so being in the environment, teaching was a part of him as well. After college, he also started out as a High School teacher and coach but only stayed in that position for three years. He loved teaching but the context was wrong for him-it was too structured for his entrepreneurial spirit.   He took time off to ‘figure it out’, getting a night job in a call center for nine months. He read all there was on starting your own venture but didn’t put anything into action. Finally, he felt that he was ready to go fail at something, because even failure was progress compared with being paralyzed from inaction.

    His first round as an entrepreneur found him ‘flipping’ a house. Although he made a decent profit, he realized that was not his calling. Then, he took a 100% commission job recruiting for an executive search firm. He did that for 8 years and was successful, but he still had that entrepreneurial drive and wanted to use his gifts.

    He then started blogging about the job search advice and strategies he had gained. He fell back in love with teaching but on terms that he could control.   The sky was the limit on income and creative freedom. He fell in love with it and he fell back in love with writing, a skill he hadn’t used very much since college.

    When he started to see that people were getting value out of his blogging, it made him want to do it more and more. The next step was realizing that if they loved his free content, then maybe he could create something people would pay for.

    From there, he progressed to what he’s doing today-he’s an author, a blogger, a speaker, and the host of 2 podcasts, Simple Life Habits and Blogging Your Passion.

    Most Influential Mentor:

    • One of his mentors along the way was another blogger
    • He was always challenging Jonathan to stay with the things that are your ‘no-end path’, those certain things that you’ll never grow weary of learning about and being a leading learner for others.
    • He also said there’s only 2 things you can take with you to the grave in online business-your reputation and your email list. He was challenging him to build his email list because no matter ‘where you go’ online, you can take your followers with you

    Challenges and Setbacks

    • There have been many opportunities along the way that felt like they were going to be the ‘big success’. That wasn’t really the case-it was always a little bit of learning and a little bit of progress each time.
    • One of the first things he started earning money on was Google AdSense. He got ‘Shiny Object Syndrome’ and tried to build oodles of niche sites on subjects he knew nothing about so that he could multiply AdSense income
    • He got to a place where he wasn’t enjoying any of it and was not inspired by any of the niche subjects. They weren’t benefitting anyone
    • He sold the additional sites and used the revenue to buy his first site, ‘Blogging Your Passion’
    • In retrospect, it was a very good decision because a year later, Google changed their algorithms and AdSense income plummeted for everyone across the board

    Primary Drive

    • At heart, he is a teacher who wants to serve other people and now he gets to do that on his own terms
    • Having impact on others’ positive transformations is more rewarding than anything else he could do

    Who He Helps

    • With his first blog, which originally focused on career coaching and has since morphed into coaching for self-development and productivity, he helps people discover what their gift is
    • His second blog, ‘Blogging Your Passion’, helps people identify the areas they’re skilled in and how to serve others doing that, by guiding them in creating their online businesses and content

    Common Challenges he Sees

    • Almost everyone deals with mindset roadblocks. So many people find the idea of entrepreneurship challenging and it goes back to their identity.
    • They feel that they need permission to go ‘all in’ and they are fearful of failing. If you can unleash these roadblocks, it’s amazing what can happen in just 90 days.
    • If you look at someone that’s been successful in what you want to do, if you stripped away all their traffic and resources, they would get to success twice as fast. It’s not because they’re smarter; it’s because they’re not afraid to hold back.

    The 5 Essential Mindsets

    • In his book, ‘The 15 Success Traits of ProBloggers’, Jonathan spells out the 5 essential mindsets you need to have for success: passion, resilience, confidence, patience and consistency
    • Resilience is about having the attitude that everything is solvable. We always look at someone’s ‘front stage appearance’ and judge that to our backstage. We see the peripheral that makes it appear that they have their act together. In the back they’re also running through difficulties and challenges as everyone else

    The 4 Core Habits:

    • Create-no matter what niche you are in, you need to be creating valuable content so that you can build trust with readers and viewers
    • Capture-keep building your email list and keep communicating with them
    • Compile-package your knowledge and expertise into products and services. Put something together so you can be officially ‘open’ for business
    • Connect-get out there, network with other people, build relationships
    • 90-95% of Jonathan’s calendar week is spent in one of those 4 areas

    Advice on Being ‘All-In’:

    • The good thing about trying something is that you’re guaranteed to get a result. The only way you won’t get a result is to do nothing.
    • If you feel stuck right now, clarity is probably not going to come from you thinking more. You need to get out and do something. Even if you fail.
    • Trust and Authority are the ultimate gifts you can gain from a lifetime of serving others.

    Favorite Quote:

    • “‘Clarity comes from movement” (Marie Forleo)

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  • 24: What Super Hero are You? with Bolaji Oyejide

    24: What Super Hero are You? with Bolaji Oyejide

    24: What Super Hero are You? with Bolaji Oyejide

    Daniel Giordano

    About Bolaji Oyejide

    Bolaji is the creator of Brave Little Heroes, a series of superhero stories for children ages 6-12.

    Bolaji grew up in Nigeria to first-generated educated parents. Although his parents became doctors, they had grown up poor and had a very strong ‘do for yourself’ drive that they instilled in their children. That work ethic, combined with his love for American comics, led Bolaji to be an entrepreneur at just 10 years old, when he would draw and sell Spiderman images for lunch money.

    He did well academically, going on to earn his undergrad degree in Computer Science and an MBA. Because his parents had come from a poor background, but became doctors, they saw a “good job” as the path to happiness and success because it provided financial stability. But, he tried working in Corporate America, staying in cubicles for 12 years, and never felt fulfilled. When he was laid off for the last time, even his boss said “I don’t know where you’re supposed to be, but this is not it”.

    At the same time, he had been encouraged by his wife to start writing down all of the stories he was telling his children. Then, came the first publication. After a few challenging ‘start-up’ years, ‘Brave Little Heroes’ has broken through and they’ve now reached over 100,000 children around the world. He’s also recently started a podcast, Bravepreneur, to interview other entrepreneurs about their most defining childhood moments. As an adult, creating this company goes full-circle back to his childhood. He’s realized his dream and he’s having a blast doing it!

    Most Influential Mentor:

    • For podcasting, his mentor is John Lee Dumas. It’s not just because he’s done amazingly well-it’s also because of how he has gotten there.
    • For internet marketing, it’s Alex Jeffries. Alex’s program is the first time he ever spent $97 on anything for developing his business!
    • If you expect someone to pay you what YOU are worth you have to first be willing to pay someone else for that value. Don’t be penny-wise and pound-foolish.
    • Every time you invest in a good mentor, it puts you on another level and you never go back.

    His Inspiration for Brave Little Heroes

    • Society tells children subliminally that they need to stifle their unique creativity as they get older, with adages such as “Don’t stand out”, “Don’t call attention to yourself”, “Get a good job”.
    • But, Bolaji knows that we can’t all be the same. He created Brave Little Heroes to entertain children while also giving them the message it’s okay to realize within themselves that creativity; it’s okay to be different and unique, that their individual identities matter.

    Conquering Fear:

    • His 2 little boys love to hear about Daddy’s childhood failures and fears. When they see his weaknesses, it helps them come to terms with their own.
    • One of the stories he tells them is about losing a track race so badly because he was so scared that even the commentator remarked on how brutal the loss was. He promised himself from that moment on-Win, Lose or Draw, never run scared. If you run scared, you’ve already lost the race before you start.

    Biggest Challenges:

    • He was laid off 3 times in 6 years working in ‘Corporate America’. At one point, he was out of work for 6 months. He was so ashamed the first time that he never even told his parents he wasn’t working.
    • Over time, these experiences made him change his relationship with fear and failure.
    • By his 3rd layoff, he saw the writing on the wall that he just wasn’t meant to be where he was, doing what he was doing. It wasn’t about failure anymore-it just meant he needed pursue something more fulfilling.
    • When he overcomes a challenge, he looks back with pride. Maybe he didn’t win the race but at least he ran.

    Looking Back at Your Experience:

    • It’s really hard to connect the dots when you’re looking into the future, but when you look back, the “A-Ha” happens and you see how all these different paths help you now.
    • When Bolaji pursued his Computer Science degree almost 20 years ago, he had no idea that the Internet would be ‘the thing’. When he pursued his MBA, he didn’t know he would need those marketing skills one day to run his own company.
    • When he started writing down the stories he was telling his children, he didn’t know he’d turn that into starting his own media company. But, he can see that knowing how to write and draw wouldn’t have been enough to be successful. Now, the Computer Science degree and the MBA make total sense!

    Who’s His Superhero?:

    • Bolaji still loves Spiderman to this day. It’s not because of his popularity. It’s because he wears his flaws on his sleeve.
    • Peter Parker, SpiderMan’s ‘human persona’, was a young kid, down on his luck, who didn’t know how to harness his superpower. Out of this story comes the most important quote ever spoken in a comic book, “with great power comes great responsibility”.
    • What flawed superheroes teach us is that people want you to be human and relatable. When you put yourself in the public sphere, you don’t have to wait until you’re perfect. People will benefit from your superpower because you are just like them.

    Advice on Being ‘All-In’:

    • Get a mentor. If you keep thinking you can do it all yourself, it will slow you down and stunt your growth.
    • Surround yourself with people whose talents help you bring your vision to life.
    • You’re going to fall down and get up as many times as it takes. The journey is worth it.
    • Doing something just for the money is not worth it. There’s a lot of ways to make money. Find that calling that lets you make a difference in the world.

    Favorite Quote:

    • “‘Fall down seven times, stand up eight.”

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  • 23: Finding Your Voice with Joel Boggess”

    23: Finding Your Voice with Joel Boggess”

    23: Finding Your Voice with Joel Boggess”

    Daniel Giordano

    About Joel Boggess

    A turning point in Joel’s life came when he was just 5 years old, stemming from an incident that almost resulted in him being hit by a train. While out hiking with family and friends, he had climbed up on a train trestle that was 30 feet above a gorge. By the time his father saw him and was able to run to the tracks, the train was already there, but Joel was not. He had fallen the 30 feet below, where he lay on the jagged rocks, very narrowly missing death. He spent 3 weeks in a coma and, upon waking, had to re-learn everything a child his age already knew had developed.

    He fought back, going all-in by investing himself in every aspect of his healing. He went on to earn both his MBA and a Master’s in Counseling, as well as becoming a syndicated radio host, life coach, author and podcaster. His latest book, ‘Finding Your Voice’, hit the #1 spot on Amazon in 3 categories-success, happiness and self-esteem.

    His podcast, ReLaunch, is actually his 9th show, along with wife and co-host, Pei. They really hit the mark on this one, recently passing the one million mark in listeners. It has given them an opportunity to speak publicly on a national level regarding issues that people from all walks of life can resonate with.

    Facing Adversity

    • Even if you have been through the wringer, you can embrace who you are and the value you have to offer to people.

    Biggest Challenges:

    • As result of his childhood accident, he had lost the ability to perform even the most basic tasks all other children his age knew, as well as being affected by temporary paralysis.
    • He couldn’t even walk a straight line for some time, but with persistence he regained almost full use of his right side.
    • He learned early on that, if he wanted to accomplish something of significance, he was probably going to have to work twice as hard than the average person. He came to accept that.

    Inspiration for ‘Finding Your Voice’:

    • This book is so very powerful because it is based on his own personal experience, as well as touching on that of his parents and their struggles.
    • He wanted to create a guidebook to show people how to look within themselves to identify their skills, passions and dreams and let them shine.

    ReLaunch-The Podcast:

    • Joel and his wife, Pei, were searching for a perfect one-word title that would also tell a story that people could easily understand.
    • The title and the show are so relatable to people on so many levels because we have all experienced a personal ‘relaunch’, whether it is within our personal or our business lives.
    • They wanted to send the message that a relaunch is healthy-it’s good to grow and develop into a next better phase of your life, to start over emotionally and spiritually.

    Advice on Gaining Clarity:

    • Reach out to others who know, like and trust you. Ask them what they have seen in you-what makes you happiest, your strengths, etc. The answers are very clarifying.
    • We don’t notice things about ourselves because we are too involved with who we are, but others can see qualities that we have been blind to or have not assigned value to.

    Advice on Being All-In:

    • Invest yourself fully in whatever goal you are pursuing.
    • When you go all-in and give it everything you have, there isn’t going to be any competition.
    • When you use your talent and link arms with those who are strong where you are weak, you become unstoppable.

    Favorite Quote:

    • “There’s no traffic jams along the extra mile.” (Roger Staubach)
    • “Talent wins games, but intelligence and teamwork wins championships.” (Michael Jordan)

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